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march 9, 2010

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the question isn't "what's new?" - the question is "what isn't new?", and the answer is "nothing".

so when we last met lil, she was involved with a man old enough to be her father and it was going nowhere. said old-enough-to-be-father man was just a teensy bit less than honest about what he wanted, and in march of 2008, lil ended up dumped on the proverbial derriere. and if that wasn't bad enough, her dearest friend - the one person outside of her family that she never wanted to lose - lost his battle with cancer the very next day.

so lil went through a bit of a transformation. she was numb for about a month...maybe a little more. then she had a breakdown. then she went into grief counselling. finally, she decided that a life change was in order.

fast forward six months to september, and lil packs up literally everything she owns and begins the long drive across the country, with her ex-husband at the helm of the u-haul. she rents two floors of a house in a downtown toronto neighborhood, and eventually finds a job to supply her with the money to pay for it all.

all in all, i'm happy. i have chalked old-enough-to-be-father man up as a rather unfortunate experience, and am content to wallow in my continued grief.

when not wallowing, i've been studying braille transcription. there's no money to be made in braille transcription, but volunteer opportunities abound. i have to do something i hate in order to earn a living - it would be nice to do something i love just for the fun of it.